“Things will be different this time, I promise!”
Anyone who has had a loved one struggle with
addiction has probably heard these words before, or words much like them. As
compassionate human beings, we sense the pain they feel, we clearly see their
struggles, and we wish fervently to believe that their words will prove true… this time. We desperately want them to
overcome their dependence on drugs, alcohol, gambling, or whatever else may be
actively ruining their lives… this time.
The problem is, we’ve seen it all before, and it always seems to end up the same way. Sure, for now, they seem repentant. For now, they seem to realize the damage that their addiction has done to themselves and the people around them. For now, it seems like they truly want to change.
But we know how this always ends. Don’t we? Or… do we? Now, before you get all up in arms, assuming that I am disparaging those who suffer from addiction, please read a bit further.
The problem the addict faces, we who have never been diagnosed with an addiction also face. The enemy which stands before the addict is the same enemy which stands before every human being, every moment of our lives: the temptation to sin.